Conical anal dilation toy?

Hi, a bit weird but I wanted to talk about it anyway; I’d like to try anal sex but I’m having a hard time getting my butt in like I can with my fingers. I have a disability that affects both the strength/flexibility of my hands and the relaxation of my lower body muscles. I was hoping there would be a dildo or something that tapered from my fingers upwards so I could push it in little by little and gradually stretch my butt without hurting my hand or hole. I already have a butt plug and a set of anal beads but they’re harder to use because they’re not very rigid so I have a hard time getting them in. I’ve been looking at something like the Sinnovator Tentacle Dildo because these types of dildos usually have a smaller tip and then flare out. Does anyone have any ideas? Cheers 🙂

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