Need some info on grinding toys

I’ve probably seen all the posts about grinders, and I’ve found that the fan favorite is the Vibepad series. However, I’m looking for something with more texture. I’ve seen a lot of people recommend the ones that look like soft tentacles, but I don’t like that it has a bullet vibrating insert instead of a built-in electronics; I’ve never tried a bullet vibrating insert, but I don’t think it would be as intense; I also don’t like that they don’t have a lot of surface area. I’ve also seen people recommend the double rider series from calexotics, but I wish it had a larger surface area and the “hump” was as prominent as the Vibepads. I’m wondering if anyone has a recommendation for a product that meets my criteria, or if anyone who has experienced these toys (I’m praying someone has tried all of them and sees this post) can convince me to go with any of these. Maybe the rumbling vibrations of the vibepads almost make it feel like it’s textured? Maybe the bullet vibrating inserts aren’t as bad as I’m saying? Maybe I don’t need as much surface area as I think, and it’s actually tiring to move my hips? I’ve never tried a grinder toy before, so all of this is just based on my thoughts.

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