7 Gadgets to Make Long Distances Easier (Indoors and Outdoors)

One of the hardest parts of living in lockdown is being separated from those who matter most to you. For many people, that means being away from friends and family, but for some, it may mean being away from your partner. Remote living is becoming the new normal for many, and they often have to stay apart due to circumstances beyond their control. And it sucks. It really sucks.

In fact, even if you’re used to being in a long-distance relationship, this time can be incredibly difficult. Normally, you know when you’ll see each other again—a trip planned, a reunion planned, or something you can count down to. But not knowing, feeling like your life is on hold—can be excruciating. So even if you’re well-practiced in the art of not seeing each other face-to-face, you might need a little help.

Luckily, technology has come with an impressive number of possibilities. There are many gadgets that can help you feel closer to your partner. And yes, many of them are for sex. But not all of them are meant for sex. If FaceTime and Zoom aren’t enough anymore, there are plenty of ways to feel emotionally closer to your partner, both in and out of the bedroom.

Like I said, some of these are just about sex. We need them. If you’re really feeling the lack of intimacy (or you’re just terribly horny), the Kiiroo Long Distance Interactive Couples Kit is here to help. Basically, this set comes with two different toys — the ONYX+ and the Pearl2 — and is perfect for straight couples who are feeling the distance.

The ONYX is a male masturbator and the Pearl2 is an epic G-spot vibrator. But you can control the vibrator via a touchpad on the ONYX, so you can really get down and dirty. Play together, play separately—either way, Kiiroo has you covered.

Okay, if you want to let loose during your separation, Pillow Talk might be the answer. But I’m talking puke-inducing sweetness here, so buckle up. This little gadget lets you hear your partner’s heartbeat, no matter where they are in the world. You each wear a watch that picks up your heartbeat and lets them hear it through a little speaker under their pillow. I told you it was over the top. But hey, if you have trouble sleeping alone, this could be a huge comfort.

If you’re feeling a little lonely in bed, but still want to have it all to yourself, then the We-Vibe Moxie is here to help. In fact, this incredible (and powerful) clitoral stimulator is portable, so you can take it with you anywhere—time to add some spice to your grocery shopping trip. What makes it perfect for long-distance relationships is the We-Connect app, which means your partner can control its 10 settings from anywhere. That’s a lot of fun in a small package.

Looking for something a little different to stimulate your clitoris? Try the We-Vibe Melt. Your partner can control it via the app, just like the Moxie, but the Melt uses air pressure and suction for really intense sensations. You have some great options.

If you’re looking for another cute gadget, look no further than the Lovebox Spinning Heart Messenger. You can send your partner a message via an app and the heart in their little magic box will start spinning. Once the box is opened, they can see your message. It’s like a little love letter that arrives in person, at the touch of a button.

Sometimes technology is at its best when it’s kept simple, and the Hey Bracelet is definitely the best choice. This little duo aims to mimic human touch, sending your partner a little “tap” whenever you want. If you just like to let your partner know you’re thinking of them and are missing that physical connection, this is a great way to recreate it. You touch the bracelet, it gets a tap, and vice versa. It’s that simple.

Looking for something a little naughtier? The A-Play range offers a range of remote controlled butt plugs, whether you’re an experienced anal player or just looking to try it for the first time. The A-Play Vibe Beginner Plug is ideal if you’re just starting out. Just remember the first rule of anal play: lubricant. More lube than you think. In fact, all the lube in the country. Lube brings everything together, which is exactly what we all need right now.

It may not be the same as having your partner in the same room as you, but these little gadgets will have to do for now. Whether you’re looking to reconnect emotionally, physically, or, you know, clitorally, there are definitely ways to do it. Thank goodness for technology.