We’re here for all of you newbies in the room who are starting your journey to find your first (or first in a long time) sex toy. Congratulations on taking this big step towards owning your pleasure!
This one is for babies who have already gotten to know their first toys and are looking to shake things up; ready to upgrade the sex toy box or improve what’s already in there.
The old adage may say that “less is more,” but in this case, more can be SO much more. You never know what you might discover by shaking up your routine, pairing your favorite toy with another, and changing your way of doing things to achieve that goal.
Here’s a list of some of our favorite product pairings to take your personal pleasure to the next level.
1. G-spot vibrator + wand
Aurora by Bellesa This is our flagship product, the one that started it all.
Some use it exclusively for clitoral stimulation, others for deep G-spot caress, and still others rock it back and forth depending on the mood of the moment. With its sleek, lightweight, and waterproof design, it’s one of the most versatile toys in town, so it’s no wonder it’s been the #1 bestseller since it hit the market.
While Aurora’s buzz gets the job done, a toy this size can only purr so much. For those looking for a little more oomph, pair your Aurora with the Bellesa NirvanaAs a wand, Nirvana features bigger, rumbling vibrations than the smaller Aurora, making it a more powerful ally for external clitoral stimulation.
With your Nirvana Wand in one hand, projecting its magic outward, trusty Aurora is then free to do everything from shallow thrusts to deep G-spot massage in your other hand. That means you can caress the nerve endings of the clitoris from the inside out and vibrate to tailor-made dual-stimulation orgasms for days.
2. Suction cup toy + glass wand
BuzzFeed x Bellesa Galet It’s the powerful little suction toy that’s been making waves since its release, and it shows no signs of stopping, just like the pleasure potential of this next pair.
Enter: the glass dildo.
Glass toys are the unsung heroes of sex toys. You can safely use any type of lube without worrying about it breaking down, and they’re the easiest to clean. They just don’t vibrate, so they tend not to be the first choice for beginners with vulvas.
This is another two-handed job, with Pebble providing clitoral stimulation as he does best, while the glass wand offers a firm but gentle internal massage (as you like). The rigidity of the glass provides greater resistance, which can even increase the strength of orgasmic contractions since the muscles have something to really squeeze on.
Note: As with any toy, there is no one-size-fits-all or one-size-fits-all setting, and suction cup toys can be a steep learning curve for some bodies. We all experience pleasure differently, so how we harness it can differ as well. But especially if you’re someone who’s tried suction and didn’t quite get what the fuss was about, I highly recommend giving this pairing a shot.
3. Erotica + Remote Control Panty Vibrator
When I’m not raving about my favorite toy friends and dildostrology, I’m busy organizing Bellesa’s Premium Erotic Collection. So trust me when I say: Eva Monroe is one of the best kinky feminist erotica writers in town. And for anyone looking to explore the kinkier side of their fantasies, or who is simply intrigued by what others might get out of them, To Sir, with lust The series is a must read.
This tale follows the inner thoughts and feelings of a woman on a date with her naughty and intelligent partner who challenges her while they are out in order to explore and entertain her submissive tendencies – like making herself cum at the table.
To take this storytelling experience to the next level, why not try partnering with a nice little panty vibe to free your hands while you read – or hand the remote to a partner to help direct the whims of your pleasure.
4. Your favorite dildo + cock ring
So you have the perfect dildo — it’s exactly the shape, color and texture you were looking for. It fits perfectly in a strap harness for playing with ankles. Maybe it also has a suction cup base for optimal hands-free driving.
But maybe you’ve discovered that you’d like it to vibrate even more. Or to stimulate your or your partner’s clitoris a little.
Well, we have a trick for that too.
Penis rings are not just for improving erection. A pleasant vibrating ring like our best-selling product Halo by Bellesa can take this perfect dildo and make it even more powerful. Like a little Voltron of sex toys. Just slide it along the shaft, strap it on if you like, and vibrate away!