Shower Sex 101 | Aldult Toys Blog

Sex is inherently fun when you do it with the right person. But variety is the spice of life, right? Have you ever tried add water to the mixture?

If your sex life needs a little change or you just want to get wet to relax wetLuring your partner into your mini waterfall is a provocative way to flow together, right? Shower sex can also be an enticing option if you want to explore menstrual sex Without the mess, you want to drown out the sound of your moans so your nosy roommate can’t hear you, or you’re just too impatient to wait for your sheets to go into the dryer.

When done correctly, it’s a widely accepted fact that shower sex can be hot and steamy in every sense of the word. That said, getting dirty and getting clean is potentially more dangerous than Hollywood would have us believe, and it’s not for everyone.

But if the idea of ​​partying while water runs over every inch of your partner’s body is too sensual to pass up, you’re not alone. To keep things safe but racy, consider the following safety tips before you jump into shower sex.

Safety tips

– Invest in non-slip accessories. It goes without saying that sex in the shower has additional The potential for slipping and sliding is high whether you’re alone or with a partner, but especially with a partner. As a safety precaution, get a non-slip mat to make your shower floor less slippery and more grippy. You can also get suction cup handles and footrests to help support yourself in new and awkward positions.

– Remove razors, bars of soap and shampoo. Spilling your bathroom accessories in the middle of the day can be both embarrassing and potentially dangerous if it causes someone to slip. Not to mention, you might just need the space provided by that ledge or shelf to strategically place a hand or foot.

– Store your condoms in the bathroom. You know, to avoid last-minute naked sprints to the bedroom that can send one person sprawling on their back, injuries aren’t the best foreplay. Plus, it’s a good idea to roll a condom on Before getting into the shower to prevent water from getting inside the condom and causing unnecessary friction or slippage.

– Use the right lubricant. Water is wet, but it’s not slippery and therefore not a substitute for lube. It’s best to use a silicone-based lube in the shower so it doesn’t wash off as quickly as a water-based lube and won’t damage condoms like an oil-based lube. Keep your lube nearby so you can reapply if needed. Tip: Never Use soap or shampoo as a lubricant! Unless it seems fun to upset your delicate pH balance and cause a vaginal infection.

Bonus Tips

While not directly safety related, the following tips will help you stay sexy – and isn’t that the whole point of shower sex?

– Clean your shower first. No one gets excited about soap scum, hair in the drain, or worse, moldy tiles.

– Be clean as foreplay. Whatever you do, don’t skip the foreplay, because being wet doesn’t mean you’re self-excited. In fact, you might even want to soap each other up as part of your warm-up session. What better way to get to know each other subtleties? Make sure to rinse well. However, before you move on to balancing games, because soap is slippery – you heard it here first.

– Don’t be focused on penetration. Whether in the shower Or Actually, penetration isn’t your only option. Plus, if you’re having trouble having penetrative sex in the shower, don’t lose heart: Water can be tricky. Plus, oral sex lends itself perfectly to the shower, as does a little erogenous ecstasy.

– Consider water-resistant sex toys. Consider bath toys for adultsThere are some pretty incredible ones. waterproof sex toy options available today — from the next level vibrators And dildoshas anal plugs, anal beadsAnd penis ringsthe possibilities are truly endless.

Positions to try

Once you have prepared your space and taken all possible precautions, how How will you approach shower sex? Try the following wet and wild (but practical) positions to get the most out of your shower sex experience!

– Standing doggy style. One person places their palms flat against the shower wall, leaning forward with their knees slightly bent. This allows the other to penetrate from behind using a penis, toy, or fingers. They are also perfectly positioned to caress your clitoris, perineum, or other delicious parts.

– Captain Morgan. Facing each other, one partner lifts their leg and places it on the edge of the tub or a bench. The other partner can then enter from the front with a penis, fingers, or a toy. If you don’t have a bench or ledge, one person can hold the other’s leg. If you have a shower handle to hold onto, even better. Reverse this position to, uh, enter from behind.

– Cowgirl/wet boy. One partner sits on the shower/tub floor while the other sits on their knees facing them to allow penetration. This move is great if you’re worried about slipping on wet tiles, as there’s no risk of falling. Just make sure your shower is super clean. Bonus: with the right angle, this can work for anal too.

– President. Think reverse cowgirl. One person sits on a shower bench, the edge of the tub, or the floor while the other sits on their lap with their back to them for vaginal or anal penetration. The person sitting can reach around and play with their partner’s nipples or genitals, while the person straddling them can place their hands on their partner’s lap for support.

– Oral erect. One person stands while the other kneels in front of them. Always make sure the person giving has a non-slip mat under their knees for comfort and that they are optimally positioned under the shower jet (in other words, they are not (have a nose or mouth full of water).

Bottom line: If done right, shower sex can be fun, sexy, and extremely refreshing. At the same time, if it doesn’t work out, no one is going to judge you for getting out of the shower and having sex on dry land either.

Hot, steamy sex for all. <3