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Long penis = great sex and ultimate masculinity.
Well… not really.
Society has conditioned men to think that having a long penis makes them sex gods, when in reality, the girth of the penis is more important (and length can sometimes be painful for women—you’re basically hitting her cervix, which isn’t comfortable).
So, whether it’s by length or by girth (or both), here are some sex positions that can keep everyone involved happy.
1. Cowgirl
Image source: Women’s Health
Having the woman on top means she can adjust her position to control the depth of penetration. She can also control the movements more easily. The man can just lie back and enjoy. You can also change it to reverse cowgirl to get the same effect (even better if he has an ass fetish) or if you like anal play during sex.
2. Sit cross-legged
Image source: Women’s Health
This is the same concept as the first option, but in a sitting position. She has full control, but you both still get to enjoy the pleasure.
3. Stand and Deliver
Image source: Bustle
You’ll notice that a lot of this is “woman control,” or your body position makes it difficult for your anatomy to fully penetrate. In the second case, against the wall, the man can thrust as the passion dictates, but your body and vaginal position makes it impossible for him to fully penetrate, and you will reap the benefits.
You can also reverse this position (so your back is facing the ground) so your butt is a little more protected, or lie on your side if you don’t want to stand.
4. Oral sex pleasure
Image credit: Katie Buckleitner
You thought it was just sex, right? Not really. Oral sex can do the trick, too. Sure some guys like the “gagging noise,” but you can still have an amazing blowjob if the woman/man holds the base of the penis with one hand (or two) and the end with her mouth. You can also turn it into a 69.
5. Crab
I had to laugh at this one because I remember all of us kids trying to do this in gym class. But be warned, this is an advanced pose and no one can do it easily.
In addition to points 1 to 5, remember that it also depends on communication with your partner. Some people may have no problem, and some may not be able to bear it too much. Just discuss it and find out what works best for you.
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Are there other big penis positions or experiences you’d like to share? Please reveal them in the comments section below.