5 Reasons Why Shopping Is The Sexiest Activity Ever | Sex Toys

Fact: Some people find shopping to be a satisfying, sensual, even erotic experience. After all, a particularly successful shopping spree allows you to satisfy your deepest desires and explore a world of tantalizing possibilities.

In fact, research shows that many people experience a “high” when shopping: Our brains are chemically programmed to respond to sales. Stanford researchers find that when you see images of items you would like to buy, a region of your brain containing dopamine receptors is activated. Dopamine, a neurotransmitter that helps control the reward and pleasure centers of the brainpushes us to take action so that we can progress towards rewards and, of course, pleasure.

And while this is especially true for shopaholics, you don’t have to be addicted to shopping to feel this kind of pleasure. 84% of “inspired buyers” enjoy a tangible shopping experience.

The question is: With BFCM (Black Friday, Cyber ​​Monday) just around the corner, what better opportunity is there to indulge in the undeniable sex appeal of discounted products?

But first, to get you in the right frame of mind mood (nam he said?) — let’s count the reasons why shopping can be so sexy:

1. Because retail therapy

The world is a cruel and demanding place, even in the best of circumstances. But when we buy something, our brains release happy hormones like endorphins and dopamine, the pleasure-producing chemicals that make us feel good. While the former relieves pain at the moment it’s felt, the latter motivates us to take on challenges and rewards us for doing so. In summary, a positive shopping experience can alleviate feelings of stress, making it a real therapeutic escape (albeit temporary!) from the oppression of the non-sensual world. You heard it here first.

2. It can boost your self-confidence

Wearing stylish and flattering clothes can boost your self-esteem, make you feel irresistibly sexy and, as a result, build your confidence. Not to mention the fact that when you get compliments from friends, family, or even strangers on your outfit, accessories, or in fact, anything you own, it’s also good for your self-confidence. While the perfect LBD (little black dress) is no substitute for long-term, meaningful cultivation of your personality, self esteemit can be a fantastic pick-me-up in the here and now.

3. It allows you to explore desire

Simply put, it feels good to indulge yourself by treating yourself to the things you want the most. On an instinctive level, we all know this to be true. Shopping offers you a way to satisfy your multiple desires by searching for and acquiring items that meet your needs. desires and fantasiesexploring and satisfying a variety of desires along the way. True story: the process of selecting and obtaining the items you want can be very exciting. It’s no wonder so many people find the act of shopping an inherently sensual experience.

4. Gift-giving is your partner’s love language (and maybe yours too)

Although everyone loves gifts, the ones that language of love Gift giving is a special way to appreciate a carefully chosen gift. Giving tokens of affection can be an intimate and sexy way to connect with loved ones, love interests, and lust interests. Shopping allows you to actively select meaningful items that not only express your feelings, but also deepen your emotional connection with another person by demonstrating your understanding of that person’s preferences and desires. If gift giving is also your love language, this act of giving is only strengthened and the mutual meaning intensifies.

5. It can spice up your sex life

Purchase sexy lingerie (like these remote controlled panties with wearable vibe), sex toys (Push is a must!), or naughty bedroom accessories (like these silky cuffs where vegan whip) can go a long way in spicing up your sex life. Let’s be honest: At its best, shopping can be a deliciously arousing erotic exercise. Not to mention, shopping for a special occasion or event you’re planning (e.g. a birthday, anniversary, sex vacation) can be even more enticing, because the anticipation is absolutely thrilling in and of itself. And if the gift is unexpected, the timeless and exciting element of surprise is sure to benefit your relationship in immeasurable ways. Mmmmm.

Yes, oh yes, shopping can touch you in your special space, and in-store orgasms are 100% a thing for many. Of course, at the end of the day, as with all things in life, a balanced approach is key—in other words, knowing the line between sexy shopping and compulsive, addictive shopping is essential. While the euphoria of casual shopping is an exhilarating experience, if you find yourself feeling an uncontrollable urge to shop, take note of how you feel, both during and after the shopping trip. If exhaustion, stress, worry, or regret figure prominently into the equation, a shopaholic support group This might be a useful next step.

Otherwise, I wish you a happy, healthy and sexy holiday shopping season. <3