Having sex with a guy is painful but i have no issues using…

I preface this by saying that i have very little experience and out of the few guys i had sex with, none of them were boyfriends or someone that i really trusted.

I have no issue orgasming by myself, with or without a dildo. I don’t feel much with penetration only, so usually i have to be touching myself constantly, which apparently is the first time this guy encounters it. Otherwise i enjoy penetration + clit stimulation and is what i do most times. It’s weird because i always hear girls say that the real thing is way better, but for me it hasn’t been like that lol.

So there is someone that i am seeing right now and we just had sex for the second time. If i am top it’s okay, but any other position is quite uncomfortable/painful and i get irritated quickly. We use plenty of lube.

I admit that i wasn’t very horny but i have a feeling it was the positions or angle we were doing that aren’t working? Plus the fact that i ask him to go slow but it’s still too fast for me. The ones that have been uncomfortable are missionary (also with legs up), doggy and spooning. What do you think is the issue? Should we simply slow down and focus on positions that work so far? Just keep trying?

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