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Fingering is often used only briefly during foreplay, like in porn, or skipped entirely. But did you know you can make it a full-on part of your life and have it be just as great as your best intercourse?
In addition, if completed Excellentshe would be very happy – wobbly, but very happy.
Here are some simple, foolproof methods to help you become a fingering master…
1. It’s not just about the hole
First and foremost, remember that this is not just about sticking two fingers in and pretending to be a jackhammer. This is a big deal in itself and should be treated as such.
how?
Understand that there are a lot of parts to deal with:
- Mons pubis – Lump on the pelvic bone
- Outer labia – Outer lips are covered with hair
- Inner labia – The labia majora are hairless and covered with labia minora
- Vaginal opening – The opening for sexual intercourse
- clitoris – There is a bulge on the top of the labia
The mons pubis and outer labia don’t have as many nerve endings, but are great for foreplay/warm-up. After that, the inner lips, vagina, and clitoris will be your focus areas. You can also go beyond the vagina and play with the perineum (the area in front of the anus).
All areas deserve attention.
2. Do not use dirty numbers
Long, scraggly, dirty fingernails should never go near a vagina. Ever. Besides cutting, you could expose her to all sorts of infections. That’s not good. Make sure to keep your nails short and filed (to remove any jagged edges), and be careful with soap and water.
3. Use lubricant
Many factors can affect a woman’s “moisturizer” — stress, medications, hormones, and more. Nothing is more uncomfortable than dry penetration. Even if she’s dripping wet, it won’t hurt to apply a little water-based sex lube. The experience will be much better if you do.
4. Explore her nuances
Every woman is different and you have to spend some time trying different pressures and movements to discover what and what parts she really likes. This can be obtained by observing her reactions, whether she moans or groans, or just asking her if she likes it or what different things she would like to do.
5. GO Slow
Work your way through the movements slowly, rather than jumping straight into the most intense pleasure. This is especially important for the clitoris—because even if it’s very tight, it can often be very uncomfortable or very painful to try at first.
And kiss, caress, lick, suck, nibble. Keep her going until she begs for more – and then you know you’ve done a good job.
6. Actual Insertion
As you prepare to move on to the final stages of fingering, remember that you still need to take your time. As for the number of fingers, it depends on the girl. Some girls prefer one finger, some prefer five. Start with one and slowly increase until she is satisfied.
A good move is to slide your fingers along the clitoris as you first penetrate her. Then, gently thrust in and out, gradually increasing force and/or speed (while watching her reactions).
7. GSPOT and others
I won’t go into detail. how Massage the G-spot (there are plenty of guides on this already), but it’s often a woman’s second magic button and is definitely worth exploring. If she likes anal stimulation, you can use another finger on the same hand (often called a “vibrator”). Just make sure she likes it first!
And don’t forget your other hand! Use it to touch other parts of her body and other parts of her vagina.
8. Let her relax
Women often have trouble orgasming because they worry about things – how the other person is feeling, how they look, if it’s taking too long, insecurities, etc. Even when there’s no pressure at all, it can take a while.
Remind her that everything is okay, that she has plenty of time — and that everything about her is sexy. Even if she doesn’t orgasm, that’s okay, you can both enjoy the experience.
9. Try toys
Sometimes vibrations can be your best friend—whether it’s inducing an orgasm or sending shivers down your body, it’s a treat. Bullet vibrators or wands are often the go-to for this type of pleasure.
This is a very Multifunctional Bullet Vibrator. Great for finger fun!
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Do you have other fingering suggestions? Please share them in the comments!