9 Naughty Valentine’s Day Games That Will Get You Thrilled | Sex

If you’re looking to shake things up sexually with your partner, lover, or new fling, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse. Get into sex play. In a perfect world, sex should be about pleasure. playGames are fun, creative, naughty, and usually lead to lots of talking, laughing, and relaxing with each other until the heat gets too high and it’s time to get down (or on the floor, or on the table, or on whatever surface you find most appealing). It turns out that communication, relaxation, and humor are a powerful combination of foreplay. Who knew? Not to mention, games are a great Valentine’s Day activity for those who are ready and willing.

Although there are countless physical board games You can buy these games online or in stores, but there are also plenty of games you can play that don’t require much more than your unbridled enthusiasm. If you’re looking to add a little spice to your Valentine’s Day this year, consider incorporating one of the following sex games into your plans.

1. Daring treasure hunt

Set a five-minute timer while you both run around the house or apartment looking for random everyday objects that have the potential to “spice things up.” Some possibilities include: a wooden spoon for spanking and teasing; a scarf for blindfolding or tying hands; strawberries for feeding each other; a hand mirror for showing your lover what they look like…for you. Whoever comes up with the most ideas will find the most objects and be the winner. The winner gets to have the fun first. But really, there are no losers here.

2. Sexy hide and seek

If your sexy (or not) partner has to work late on Valentine’s Day, you can surprise him with a friendly game of hide-and-seek as soon as he opens the door. Before he arrives, strip down and drape or drop your clothes around the house in a suggestive manner. Maybe your shirt is by the front door, your jeans are on the coffee table, your bra is on the steps, and your underwear is hanging on a doorknob. The idea is to leave a trail. You, wherever you chose to hide, whether it was completely naked or in a skimpy outfit you chose to wear for the occasion.

3. Spin the bottle of love

If you ever played spin the bottle as a teenager, this game is sure to excite you. On a large piece of paper, draw a circle about twice the diameter of the bottle and divide it into six sections. In each section, add a sex act that you and your partner can perform on each other, whether it’s an erotic massage, oral sex, manual stimulation, or, hell, a delicious striptease and lap dance. Then, drink that bottle, you say?

4. Roll the dice

We’ve all seen weird stuff dice gamesBut have you ever owned one? Think about it. It’s fast, simple, and offers sensual commands with a quick roll of the dice on your pillow. Perfect for when you need a little inspiration or need to follow a directive. One person rolls the “location” dice (i.e. bedroom, kitchen) as well as the “how” dice (i.e. rough, gentle), while the other partner rolls the “posture” dice to determine your positions. What happens next is up to you. Always make sure to get consent, of course! Rolling dice is never a substitute for human feeling.

5. Match my moves

This simple game is really exciting. Take turns doing certain “moves” to each other: for example, you can kiss your partner’s collarbone 5 times. Once you’re done, your partner has to do the same to you. Get creative, making the moves more complex (and naughtier) as you go. If someone misses a move, they have to start over. Eventually, you’ll probably end up ditching the “moves” in favor of a more organic flow.

6. Naughty cards

gGrab a deck of cards and assign each suit a meaning. Spades might mean kissing, clubs might mean massage, diamonds might mean blowjob, and clubs might mean “use your hands!” You can call them whatever you like. Then, take turns drawing cards from the deck and, uh, pleasure yourself. The number on each card represents the amount of time you and your partner are supposed to spend on each action. Maybe you’ll start with 10 kisses and gradually work your way up to blowjobs or penetration. Or maybe it’s the other way around. Who’s to say? The night is young.

7. Role play

Role play is key. If you and your partner enjoy getting creative with dirty talk, role play can be a fun way to add a new dimension. Pick two roles that you both find exciting, whether it’s boss and secretary, teacher and student, plumber and housewife, hitchhiker and hitchhiker. Or, you can take a different approach and pretend to meet for the first time on a blind date. Have fun. You might be surprised at how interested you are in your character.

8. The ugly “Never have I ever”

If you have never played before, tThe rules of Never Have I Ever are simple: Players take turns listing potential experiences that they’ve never actually had (e.g., “I’ve never had a threesome, worn shorts in public, or participated in a twerking contest”). If the other person has Once the action in question is done, they perform a predetermined sex act (maybe for each thing they did that you didn’t, they have to lick a different part of your body). Or maybe it’s a striptease game, where they have to remove a different piece of clothing each time. You take turns, of course. If no one has done the action in question, you continue, building up the tension and learning more about the experiences (and inexperiences) of the person before you. For an alternative version of this game, take turns listing 3 “never have I ever” statements at a time, one of which you actually did. The other person has to guess which one. If they’re right, you reward them handsomely.

9. Naked Tornado

Um, need I say more? If you don’t have a game yet Tornado All you need is a classic game board and a willingness to get into crazy, contorted positions. While naked. Or wearing something sexy. And laughing, of course. You don’t really need to be flexible—it’s actually even more fun when you’re struggling to stay upright. As your bodies intertwine in bizarre, erotic ways, the sexual tension is sure to rise. To up the ante, you can add kissing, tickling, or 20-second sessions with a vibrator.

Bottom line: Valentine’s Day, like every day, should be an opportunity to have creative fun in bed with your loved one. I wish you all this and more. Happy Valentine’s Day to all! <3