I bet you’re also here because you can’t understand why there are six different ways for men to orgasm.

Well, surprise!

But we won’t just focus on that. You’ll also learn some interesting and surprising information about the male orgasm. Let’s take a deeper look…

First…

Your doctor and psychiatrist don’t always agree

You might think that something as common as orgasm would have a fairly standard definition, but it’s surprisingly varied—especially among different research circles.

For example…

Medical professionals and mental health professionals sometimes different Views on the definition – One focuses on physiological changes, the other focuses on psychological and cognitive changes. So, if you ask your therapist, they’ll say it’s your head. If you ask your doctor, they’ll say it’s your crotch.

This may sound strange, but remember that even as late as the 1970s, doctors still insisted that women did not experience orgasms of any kind and that pleasure was strictly the domain of men.

Fortunately, time has passed and people start Observe the brain and body together. Here are some interesting things you may or may not know…

#1 They (mostly) agree on the “phases”:

Excited

You see or feel something that turns you on. The blood starts flowing and you get an erection.

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As your blood pressure rises, your body begins to speed up. Blood pools in your vessels, the glans penis enlarges, the muscles in your thighs and buttocks tense, and your breathing quickens.

Orgasm

Key parts of the body (like the prostate, PC muscles, etc.) tense up and semen is forced out of the urethra in 10-30 seconds. Chemicals and hormones flood your body. Parts of your brain light up or shut down to reduce inhibitions and increase pleasure.

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Also known as the refractory period. At this time, everything returns to normal, and men are temporarily unable to orgasm. The refractory period can last from a few minutes to a few days, but the older you are, the longer the refractory period.

#2. They don’t just look at your trash.

Orgasm results from two basic responses to sustained stimulation:

Vascular congestion: Body tissues fill with blood and swell.

Myotonia: Muscle tension due to voluntary flexion and involuntary contraction.

However, some amputees report orgasms from missing body parts, paralyzed people feel pleasure from areas they can’t reach, and certain medications have “orgasmic” side effects, leading researchers to wonder if it might have more to do with the central nervous system than the genitals.

#3. We thought it was easy, but it’s not.

Society puts a lot of pressure on Big O. However, many people say It’s more about the feeling of connection than a creepy ending.

Additionally, one in three men will experience premature ejaculation at some point in their life, while many women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

Finally, there is strong evidence that your Orgasms are as unique as you are. The steps may be the same, but the stimulus, journey and reaction are different.

This all leads to a rather confusing situation.

However, the need for intimacy, health issues or a diverse sexual life path are not the end of our bedroom behavior. They just make us better understand our bodies and better guide us on how to become the masters of our own pleasure.

how?

Well, I saved the best for last…

There are many types of orgasms

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You might think there’s only one kind of orgasm… pumping/masturbating until the fireworks go off. However, just like women, men can have many kinds of orgasms.

Yes, you think you are eating a portion of food, but you are actually eating from a buffet…

1. Ejaculation type

This is your basic orgasm – the one you have during sex, and the one that makes you lose control of your pelvic thrusts (unless you practice controlling it)…and looks ridiculous. Pretty standard hat.

2. Pelvic type

This method is more elusive and is often talked about in spiritual circles or among tantric sex enthusiasts. However, there is nothing mysterious about it.

The idea is to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles and train yourself to stop ejaculating to avoid the “rest period” but still be able to orgasm – it will feel more intense and last longer. It’s essentially the male version of multiple orgasms.

3. Hips

Many men are shy or completely refuse to use anything sexy around their backdoors. That’s a shame, because the anal area has tons of nerve endings that can deliver great pleasure. If you can let your guard down and accept sex toys or fingers, you might just be able to achieve a new kind of orgasm.

4. Prostate

Women have a G-spot, but did you know that men have something similar, too? It’s called the P-spot (the P stands for prostate). It’s an area above your butt that has lots of nerve endings around it (which also contributes to orgasms).

You can stimulate this area with your fingers or a sex toy to get those Big-Os. However, he needs to be completely relaxed and immersed in the pleasure for this to work properly.

notes: If you’re curious about any butt play (but not ready to dive in), you might Consider buying a sex toy first. You can buy any size you feel comfortable in and wear them as you wish. I recommend these…

edge – Fully adjustable prostate massager
Quiet – Vibrating butt plug (two sizes)
Domi – A strong wand (for external play if you’re not ready to plug it in)

5. whole bodyY/Blended

This stimulates your pelvic and spinal regions simultaneously. How does it do that? It simulates the penis and prostate at the same time. This orgasm will be one of the most intense you’ve ever experienced in your life.

6. Skin Type

These feelings aren’t Boom-Boom-Boom! feelings. They’re those exhilarating, pleasurable feelings that most people don’t realize they have. They give you goose bumps. And that feeling comes from music.

Yes, music.

Have you ever listened to a song and felt your whole body energized, excited, and your skin tingling? This is actually a mild orgasm. It’s usually attributed to classical or instrumental music (without distracting lyrics and without invoking external emotions), but anything you personally enjoy can have this effect.

Pretty cool, right?

Why is this important?

You might be thinking, “So what if there are so many types?”

But the fact that you have a choice is important…

First, choose something that will spice up your sex life.

Let’s face it, after a while, the affection between you may grow, but the sexual spark tends to wane and requires more effort to maintain. If you’re stuck with a quick “let out” with your partner on a Sunday night, with the kids in bed, things can quickly get stale – and negative emotions can set in.

Give your partner and yourself something new. Mix it up. Your relationship may be stale, but your sex life doesn’t have to be.

This is good for your body.

In addition to getting blood flowing and exercising, sex helps release pleasure- and bonding-boosting hormones, as well as combating depression and other health issues.Forget the apples. Orgasm A day keeps the doctor away.

Learn more about the benefits of having sex:

10 benefits of sex: Doing dirty things can make your body healthier

It can relieve stress.

Whether it’s stress or health issues, some people find it too stressful or nearly impossible to get “that” orgasm through intercourse. So if there are other avenues, you can still seek pleasure.

It helps to solve several health problems.

Premature ejaculation or urine leakage can be a problem for some men. If this is the case, exercising the pelvic floor muscles can help a lot – if you remember, this is the key to having a non-ejaculatory orgasm. One exercise, two benefits. Win-win!

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What about you? What’s your favorite orgasm? Feel free to share it in the comments?