55 ideas for sex toy advent calendars and other adult gifts

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Yes, you can save all your sexy gifts for Christmas (and then enjoy passionate sex for the next 24 holidays), or you can spread all your gifts out over the first 12/24 days and save the biggest gift for the 25th.^day. This way, you will give your partner a December they will never forget.

Besides, I know what you’re thinking.

“But they’ve already launched a sex toy calendar online.”

Yes. It does. And it is totally a choice.

However…

These sets are limited to what the manufacturer thinks you need, rather than what you and your partner will actually like. Some of them even include unsafe products (both the materials and the BDSM practices, which need to be researched ahead of time).

Why not take the extra step and create a collection that you know will be a hit?

Here are some ideas for sexy advent calendars.

Sexy Advent Calendar Ideas

Oh, before you start, I added a lot of other links products or other articles. So if you see something that piques your interest, there may be more information to help you get inspired, buy, or understand.

1. Velcro cuffs – Yes, metal handcuffs are an option, but Velcro restraints are more comfortable and easier to get out of if anything goes wrong.

2. Sexy pajamas – Silk or cotton, it doesn’t matter, as long as your partner likes it.

3. Spanking – If you like spanking, maybe try some impact toys. A whip, paddle, or riding crop. If you can find a riding crop in Christmas colors or designs, make it a little more special (like a snowman riding crop). Read This guide If you are new to impact game.

4. Bullet Vibrator – They are a must-have for any sex toy collection. Small in size, but mighty powerful (unless you buy the dirt cheap ones, they only buzz for five minutes and then die).

An example of a smartphone controlling a bullet vibrator

AMBI – The most versatile bullet vibrator.

5. Naughty Jewelry – Unbound Box and Vesper have some great jewelry that can double as BSM or sex toy gear. You can also Sexy jewelry.

6. Body painting – The default sauce is usually some kind of chocolate sauce, but there are other colors and flavors available. Have fun applying and licking the sauce off—just make sure it stays away from your vagina.

7. Magic Wand – This sex toy is not for the faint of heart. It will make your knees buckle and often bring you to orgasm in seconds. If you want the original wand (formerly produced by Hitachi), make sure you don’t accidentally buy a knockoff. Alternatively, you can buy it from another reputable brand. Domi by Lovense is a good choice.

8. Bra and panty sets – If you don’t know your partner’s size, note her favorite size and then go to a lingerie store to get your measurements (or actual bras and panties). Including dimensions.

9. Foreplay Dice – Sex positions or foreplay dice (one with a body part and the other with a verb).

10. Cock Ring – Great for him and her. They do need to be the right size, though. Check this out Cock Ring Guide to know more information.

11. Wear your seat belt – Lesbian action or dildos – It doesn’t matter! Many dildos can be adapted to fit into a harness, but it’s important to find a comfortable harness.

12. Crazy Dildo – There are a lot of weird or eye-popping sex toys out there. If you can think of a shape, it’s probably been made. Don’t believe me? Well, I was able to put together a Thanksgiving-themed sex toy feast—even carrots. If you want to get super crazy, look for Extreme Sex Toys, Big dildoor Things from Japan.

13. Sex/Sexy Coupons – Also known as sex checks. They are the raunchy version of the “I owe you a coffee” coupon. Search online for templates or make your own.

14. Surprise Sex – It’s like coupons on steroids. You’re targeting a specific behavior—perhaps a fantasy your partner has always wanted to try. Work out all the details ahead of time, then surprise them when they least expect it.

15. Naughty Mug – single words or entire phrases – the only limit is your imagination! There are plenty of places that will do custom work if you want. Or you can browse online and find something ready-made.

16. Butt plug – Big, small, shock, solid, with gems, with tails! There are some for every budget. Just make sure they are body safe and designed to be safe. Read this Butt Plug Guide to know more information.

17. Prostate Massager – These are sex toys that allow men to stimulate their P-spots. This is a way to have intense and multiple orgasms. However, they are a little difficult to install and they may not be the best toy if you are new to anal sex. Either you have to test different brands to find the right one, or buy one Adjustable prostate massager.

18. Stinging Gel – Sex gels or massage oils will feel cool to the touch. If you’re applying it to sensitive areas like your genitals, make sure the product is made for that purpose, and always do a spot test before use!

19. Warm massage oil – “Heating” oils may contain similar compounds to chili peppers – again, do the spot test. If you’re super nervous, try putting a trusty massage oil in a bowl of very warm water. Read This guide More information about temperature and heat.

20. Candy Cane Dildo – This sex toy is a pure holiday gift. At first glance, it also seems to be well-made (no thin parts or glossy paint). It can be used as a gag gift or hung on the tree.

21. Condoms – No, not men’s bikinis (but you can add one if you want), but those underwear designed to dress up as penises, elephants, etc. Also candy canes, elves, Santa Claus, reindeer, etc. Not all gifts are to be taken seriously!

22. Holiday-themed lubricants – Cranberry sauce, mint, gingerbread, the lot.

23. Masturbator – You can buy some expensive ones, e.g. Fleshlights or Maximum 2or buy a single/double-use condom like the Tenga Egg. If your man is into all things Japanese, consider getting a hentai onahole.

24. Nipple clamps – If you and your partner both like nipple jewelry, add some clips or nipple suction cups.

25. Blindfold – Yes. That’s for sure. They can also be cheap and personal.

26. Personalized Retro Viewer – Remember those paper plates with pictures on them? You would put those in your plastic binoculars. They’re still in production! They also allow you to send in pictures and have a personalized set made just for you. It’s up to you how exciting you want to be.

27. Bath Mud – Hear me out! Some people like to play with slime or different textures during sex. One pack is enough to make an entire bathtub boil. It’s also safe to dump out when you’re done.

28. Lipstick Vibe – it is Disguised Bullet Vibrator! Perfect for the woman or man who loves sex toys but needs to hide them.

29. Ugly Christmas Sweater – You and your partner can wear one… without wearing anything else. Then, wear it at the next holiday party with a secret smile that only you and your lover will understand.

30. Feather Twirler – It’s old-fashioned, but it works. A feather tickler makes a great flirtation gift – especially if you’re new to kinky stuff.

31. Anal beads – Make sure they are made of body-safe materials like silicone.

32. Chastity Cage – Maybe your partner’s ideal holiday is no Christmas sex. If so, lock them in a chastity device and tease them to your heart’s content! Here are some Games You Can Also Play When they were locked up.

33. Sex Toy Cookies – Yes. Like those fancy cylinders filled with cheap toys, tacky treasures and paper crowns… but filled with sex stuff.

34. Sex Positions Book – I can’t recommend just one because there are so many! There are enough that you can find one that fits your partner’s personality – sexy, fun, sports, historical, etc.

35. Personalized Erotica – Some are awkward. Some are really hot. Either way, fill out the form, flip open the spine, and enjoy!

36. Semen or Naughty Recipes – Have a naughty cookbook! If your partner is a foodie and a geek, this book is perfect for them. Even if you don’t plan on cooking with it, it’s a fun conversation starter.

37. Stockings – No, not the kind that hangs over the fireplace. The kind that hangs on your legs. Vintage topstrings, fishnets, polka dots, ribbons, the kind that come with garters. The designs are endless!

38. Adult Coloring Books – You might laugh, but some of these designs are beautiful.

39. Chocolate Sauce – If you don’t like the body paint option, go for some good, old chocolate sauce Or take some scraps/chunks and melt them down to make your own.

40. Naughty Cookie Cutter – Penis or vagina cookies with buttercream frosting. Delicious!

41. Inappropriate Fortune Cookies – I can’t judge the accuracy of these fortune tellings, but I have certainly seen them online. If your partner enjoys hosting lively, festive parties filled with drunken laughter, this is a great option.

42. Sexy Truth or Dare Card – Make your own or buy one online. Bonus points if it’s a game you can play as a group!

43. Sexy Tea – There are products called sex tea, goddess tea or aphrodisiac tea. This is a good idea if your lover doesn’t like coffee.

44. fragrance – It could be their favorite fragrance, something you know drives them crazy. Or, it could be something with pheromones in it.

45. Dirty Pasta – Noodles shaped like human body parts. Yes, they are delicious.

46. ​​Gift Cards – but keep it sexy and choose one from Victoria’s Secret or their favorite lingerie store.

47. Sex Stacking Game – It’s like Jenga, but sexier.

48. You are sexy because – For those of you who are crafty, there is another DIY option. Get some pretty stationery or scrapbooking materials and list all the reasons why you think they are a God/Goddess. Put it in an envelope/container and watch their faces light up with joy.

49. Sexy Notepad – I saw an article called “Why I Must Have Sex With You” and it was like a fill-in-the-blank book with a bunch of checkboxes for reasons you want to go crazy. I’m sure there are many similar stories.

50. Inflatable sex triangle pillow – Some are expensive, but if you’re on a budget, you can buy the ones that explode. They can make certain sex positions easier.

51. Essential Oil Diffuser – Some essential oils have benefits for libido. Diffusers can make it easier to distribute the scent. View This guide for oil recommendations.

52. Socks – Don’t choose the ones your grandma knitted. Try one that says “naughty and nice”.

53. Music Synchronized Toys – Some sex toys can sync to music (and can also be controlled remotely via a smartphone). They are usually expensive and best left at the end of your gift list.

54. Hidden Vibrator – Maybe your partner isn’t ready to show off their toys yet. You can find plenty of Disguised as something else.

55. Sexy Uniform – or a costume. You don’t have to wait until Halloween to dress up as sexy Snow White.

You can choose a theme for the 12 Days of Christmas, or go all out for the full 24 days – and save the best gift for the 25th.

Also, once you’ve decided on the gifts, you can wrap them like traditional gifts and take them out every day, or hang them in a bag and hang them on the wall (to tease your partner).

Got any other sexy Christmas advent calendar ideas? Share them in the comments!