4 Ways to Improve Your Luck in Love | Aldult Toys Blog

The Saint Patrick is upon us, and that can only mean you deserve a pot of gold, a four-leaf clover, or a cute little redhead dressed in green whose sole mission in life is to grant you supernatural wealth—or, you know, help you find true love, if that’s the kind of wealth you’re looking for.

When it comes to the luck of the Irish in matters of the heart, there is certainly no shortage of superstitious traditions floating around in the ether, wedding superstitions in particular. For example, curiously, green was traditionally considered an unlucky color In Ireland, if you are attending a wedding, avoid wearing green, or you will bring bad luck to the bride and groom! And according to Irish old wives’ tales, the new moon is associated with fertility because “as the new moon grows, so do the little plants inside the seeds.” Suffice to say, if you’re getting married or trying to conceive, you now have something concrete to work towards! For the rest of us, those of us looking to improve our luck in love, it may be necessary to learn the art of romantic manifestation.

This St. Patrick’s Day, consider these 4 modern manifestation techniques for luck in love!

1. Reach out and claim your personal magic.

Sometimes just taking a moment to breathe a good rhythm and set an intention—wearing your inner flame on your sleeve—is powerful magic in itself. TikTok Manifestation Goddess, priestessprincessoffers powerful energy interventions to reverse the trend of love. “Let me send you energy so they think of you NOW,” reads one of the captions of his video“You look lonely. I can fix that,” she said aloud, her eyes shining. But You can use any words and/or music to stir up your Fire. Then she closes her eyes, reaches out her hand. She waves and works her magic on a mysterious love interest, inspiring her followers to do the same.

Our faithful priestess of love-obsession has many other mini music videos to choose from, some at spice things upsome to find that special someone addicted to the idea of ​​youand you get the idea. Claim that energy, make it your own, and you might be surprised at the inner magic you’ll discover swirling within your own heart center.

2. Prioritize your sexual healing through witchcraft.

If you have sexual healing to do (for whatever reason), give priority to this will open you to bigger, better, more unlimited blessings of love. No doubt about it. Author, BDSM passionate and self-proclaimed witch Gaby HerstichThe latest book is called Sacred Sex: Magic and the Path to Divine EroticismShe has written a number of books on being a “sacred slut,” how to be a “modern witch,” and how to trigger your own sexual healing. Witchcraft, she once told Bellesais valuable for sexual healing, as it reconnects you to your love for your body and harnesses the energy to manifest or banish as needed. Gaby achieves this in part through sexual magick, which involves self-honoring through masturbation. Why? Because the energy released during orgasm is powerful in strengthening intentions.

“Focus on something you want to attract or heal using this moment of energy release. Even if it’s ‘I want to love my body more,’ ‘heal more,’ or ‘attract a partner who makes me feel good,’ it’s very powerful,” she shared. When you masturbate, consider using something special, like this heart opening Sweetheart Glass Dildo to enhance your healing and open yourself more to love. Consider strengthening your self love ritual even more by lighting candles, wear lingeriestage your own sensual photoshootor meditate on the concept of erotic hygiene.

3. Consider the magical power of self-sabotage.

“Being your own self-destructive puppeteer doesn’t make you unlucky. It makes you an emotional SM enthusiast,” he jokes. relationship coach Natasha AdamoJust as positive thoughts, words, and beliefs can have a strange power over our love and sex lives, negative self-talk and negative thoughts can also have a strange power over our love and sex lives. negative belief systems in all their forms. In other words, if you believe your next date is going to be a disaster, chances are it’s going to be a negative experience. If you believe that casual sex and/or promiscuity are somehow dirty or shameful, you’re blocking your own self-esteem and sexual power from gushing out and offering you their juicy bounty (you may also be blocking certain partners from finding you). These beliefs and thought patterns are rarely conscious, but they nonetheless make a huge difference in the outcomes we experience—in love, as in life.

In addition to training yourself to become more aware of the content of your thoughts, as well as where certain beliefs you hold onto come from – a powerful process of letting go and unlearning, if you let it – developing a deeper understanding of what you want (and I don’t want) in a partner can also be very helpful. After all, when it comes to getting what you want in any area of ​​life, clarity is king. Great love stories rarely unfold where confusion reigns supreme. You heard it here first. To sum it up: Get rid of your destructive discouragement and unfounded beliefs. Then, gaze into a clear pool (or a rushing river on the Emerald Isle) and see the love you desire, unobstructed, as it flows directly toward you.

4. Externalize the power of Feng Shui within you.

Okay, so it’s not Irish, but it might just bring you luck. Feng Shui is an ancient traditional Chinese practice that can be broken down into two words: “feng,” meaning wind, and “shui,” meaning water. The concept comes from an ancient poem that describes humanity as connected and in harmony with the environment around them. In the modern world, one can turn to the principles of Feng Shui to create harmony in their home environment, or to make that environment a magnet for love.

Bottom line: According to some Feng Shui experts, clean sheets, especially in pink or nude tones, represent love. Really, who can go wrong with clean sheets? At the same time, adding touches of red to your room is said to attract passion and love. Experts also advise those seeking love to get into the habit of pairing objects together to build cohesion (e.g., two chairs, two throw pillows, two brass elephants on the mantelpiece). Also, make sure your home always smells good, whether it’s incense, fresh flowers, or an essential oil diffuser, because positive scents are inherently welcoming. And, since fire sparks new relationships and keeps love alive, you’d do well to burn a candle on a fairly regular basis. Finally, avoid excessive clutter, so you have plenty of free space for a new love.

Ultimately, if you do any or all of the above from the heart, you’re sure to amass some shiny good luck charms this St. Patrick’s Day and beyond. Remember: love.