4 ways to have sex from behind

Ahhh doggy style. It’s a classic for a reason. For those with vaginas, it can help stimulate the elusive vagina G-spotand people with penises can get a lot prostate Stimulate.

Not to mention, it’s pleasurable for the person doing the penetration, whether they’re experiencing pleasure through their penis or just watching their partner fuck them from behind!

But variety is the spice of life. While doggy style is great for everyone involved, sometimes you want to switch it up. We’re here to broaden your horizons with these four super-spicy behind-the-back attack positions.

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It’s important to point out that the traditional doggy style just doesn’t work for some people. Some people with vaginas experience tingling, excessive intensity, and even motion sickness! For others, it doesn’t feel good. These guys may still want to explore sex from behind, but will need some alternative positions to explore.

For those who enjoy penetrative sex, many enjoy the feeling of being fucked from behind…and their partners may enjoy giving them that feeling, too. We want to be clear that these positions are suitable for anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

Whether you use a penis or a toy (such as a strap-on) for anal or vaginal penetrative sex, most positions can be accomplished. Use your imagination!

1. Stand and salute

For those looking for a more “energetic” experience, it’s time to get up and move!

Ergonomically speaking, having sex while standing can be a little difficult. Many people find the easiest way to do this is from behind.

You’ll most likely need some leverage so you don’t fall over. The best way to do this is to lean your hands against a wall or bed while your partner enters from behind.

If there’s a height difference between the two of you, you can always stand on something to make yourself taller – just make sure it’s stable enough for you to move around. If your partner is using the toy with their hands, they can kneel down and penetrate you from a lower angle while enjoying the incredible view.

This one will probably be extra steamy. Be sure to stay hydrated and even stretch before and after exercise. No one needs to strain a muscle when you try to put it on.

2. Love Seat

Want to try a new sofa or recliner? We might have an idea…

The person performing the penetration usually sits on a chair or couch. The person being penetrated then sits on their lap and does their thing!

Your partner will feel the intense sensation of you grinding against them, while still being close enough to use their hands to explore other parts of your body. They can also use their feet as leverage to penetrate deeper into their partner.

This is a great position to introduce a clitoral stimulation toy if that applies to you and/or your partner. We recommend easy-to-operate SIRI 2 or Lily 2a small scented vibrator that provides extra sensory stimulation.

3. Right angle

Looking for a position that allows for deep penetration while maximizing skin contact? Don’t hesitate any longer!

First, the person being penetrated lies on his or her stomach, then bends one knee and moves one leg up so that it is more or less perpendicular to the rest of the body. I’m sure you can guess what happens next…

For a deeper angle, you can place a pillow under your pelvis to slightly support your hips. The person on top can alternate between using their arms to support themselves and remain upright, or lying on their partner’s back while penetrating them.

To keep things sliding we recommend adding some extra lubricant. If you use condoms or toys, make sure they are safe to use with either. *hint, hint* LELO is water based personal moisturizer and neutral water based Lubricants are all good choices.

NOTE: Physical contact will make you sweat!

4. Classic Spoon

The spoon has an extra sweet and intimate feel. But spooning isn’t just for cuddling, it can be a great sex position too.

The purpose of this position is to make both of you as comfortable as possible so that you can truly have pleasure. Use pillows and props as needed, then lie on both sides and begin the exercise. An alternative to spooning is to have the penetrating partner lie on their side while the other partner lies half on their back and half on their side, sort of lying on top of their partner, and enter that way.

This is another great position to explore your partner’s body with your hands or toys. This is true whether you are penetrating or being penetrated. Breasts, nipples, clitoris, balls and ass are all pretty much accessible while spooning.

If you’re behind, we recommend giving your partner’s neck some extra oral care. You can thank us later!

Safety first!

Of course, no sex meeting is complete without a small safety meeting. If you have sex with a new partner, be sure to discuss your STI status and testing history, as well as any barrier methods you use (such as condoms). If this applies to you, you’ll also want to have a birth control chat.

Another important aspect of safety is communication. This is especially true when you’re trying out a new position, even with your long-term partner. Unless you’ve discussed liking the element of surprise, ask them if they’re open and willing to explore one, two, or five new locations…this conversation can become a form of foreplay!

Your sex life is where you can explore and experience new levels of pleasure. So, accept these positions and make them your own. Enjoy the journey!

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