18 of the Sexiest Anal Positions to Surprise Him

Ass jobs, butt jobs, ass fucking, ass centered diplomacy.

No matter what you call it, it’s essentially a lubricated penis that slides between your butt cheeks.

Whether you’ve heard of it or tried it before, you can rest buttI believe many people like to do this!

Some people engage in anal sex because they are big fans of butts and this interaction turns them on. Some people engage in it because it requires less foreplay. Others do it just to try something new and interesting.

Today you are in for a treat! I’m going to show you (with drawings/pictures) 18 of the hottest anal sex positions that you and your partner can try.

3 ways to make the most of anal sex

I get it. It seems very simple to slide your penis around your buttocks in a non-penetrative manner. But in order to get the most out of sex, there are a few things you need to pay attention to.

1. Consider hygiene

Since you’ll be in close contact with someone’s butthole, you may want to think about hygiene ahead of time. Most guys want a sparkling, clean sphincter before they start anal sex. Of course, for some people, this won’t appeal to them and they are free to jump right in.

But taking a thorough shower, bath, or quick baby wipe beforehand will make both parties feel more comfortable and feel free to interact without hesitation.

2. Use lubricating oil

As with any form of intercourse (thigh fucking, titjob, etc.), you’ll most likely need to use some form of lube, as the butt doesn’t lubricate itself.

I most recommend using a water-based lubricant or refined coconut oil. But really, you can use any other form of lube or oil that works best for both of you.

Depending on how much mess you’re going to make, you may also want to lay out a waterproof blanket (or some sheets you don’t care about getting stained) before you start.

3. Create friction in one of three ways:

You can create/switch/regulate pressure and friction in your anus in one of three ways.

The man can use his hands, the woman can use her hands, or you can use specific clothing to hold the penis closer to the buttocks to create friction.

It will be easier for everyone to use their hands depending on the anal position you’re engaging in, so calibrate however you see fit.

18 Sexiest Anal Positions That Will Blow His Mind

Well, without further ado, here are 18 anal positions you and your partner can try.

You’ve probably tried one or two of these, but there’s something here for everyone, as different anal positions appeal to different people who like different body parts best.

enjoy!

1. Lapp dance

For the Lapdance anal sex position, the man sits on the edge of the bed/sofa/chair and the woman stands with her back to him.

A man can use his hands to push his penis forward to create friction, while a woman can also use her body weight to lean back against him to create friction.

If a man enjoys playing with his testicles, this may be an easier position for a woman to reach back (between her/their legs) and stroke his testicles and scrotum.

2. Back seat driver

For the backseat driver position, the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him, with her head close to his head and her feet close to his.

If a woman wants to be more aggressive in this particular butt job position, she can put her feet on either side of him and create friction. If she likes to be passive and he likes to be active, then she can straighten her legs, he can bend his legs, and he can do most of the work. Regardless, this position feels incredible and creates lots of opportunities for kissing, breast caressing, and physical intimacy.

3. Bottom of power supply

In the “Power-Bottom” position, the woman lies face down and the man straddles her, sitting upright. He then used his hands to bring her butt cheeks together to increase the friction that gravity would naturally take away.

This anal position is known as the “power bottom” because each person’s position can result in a more dominant/submissive dynamic depending on how they engage.

If your man is a lover of having your butt touched, this one might be your favorite.

4. Reversal teasing

In “Turn and Tease,” the man lies on his back and the woman straddles him, with her back to him, upright on her knees.

It’s like the reverse cowgirl position, but anal.

Likewise, a man can use his hands to push his erection forward to create friction, a woman can reach back and use her hands to create friction, or she can sit down/press his penis into his lower abdomen to increase pressure. It’s entirely up to the woman whether she stays upright, leans forward and puts her hands on his calves, or leans back and puts her hands on his torso (so he can touch her breasts more easily).

5. Comfortable New Moon

The cozy crescent is the equivalent of the spoon’s anus. The man and woman both lie on their sides, facing the same direction, and place his erect penis between the woman’s buttocks for anal intercourse.

In this position, a man can easily kiss his partner’s mouth, neck, grab her hips for leverage, and touch her breasts. It depends on the couple whether he mostly pushes into her or she mostly pushes back into him (like a lying Latin dance).

6. Cable car squeeze

For the cable car squeeze, the man sits in a higher position (on a chair, edge of bed or couch, etc.) and the woman straddles him, facing him. Almost like a reverse lap dance. Then, either the man reaches out and presses the woman’s butt cheeks together, presses his penis into her, or she reaches back to apply pressure.

This position is a real winner for men who can’t decide whether they’re a “butt guy” or a “boob guy.” Why? Because they can have both. Long live!

7. Firestarter

The Firestarter anal sex position is like doggy standing, with the woman fully bent forward.

Similar to the power base position, this position creates an intentional polarization of the dominant/submissive dynamic in each person’s posture.

Similar to the “lap dance” and “turn around tease,” a woman in this position will have an easier time stimulating her clitoris or reaching back to touch her man’s testicles.

8. Comfortable Puppy

The comfortable doggy style anal position is similar to Firestarter, but is better for the knees/has more cushioning.

The woman can easily transition from this position to the “Power-Bottom” by simply asking her to put her legs together and lie flat on her back.

9. Comfortable Cowgirl

For “comfy cowgirl,” the man lies on his back and the woman straddles him, facing him, with his penis being stimulated behind her.

In this position, the woman can either remain upright and give him a stunning view, or she can fold forward to transition to…

10. Warm hugs

The Warm Hug is like a cozy cowgirl, but with a forward fold for women.

This position is more intimate as both men and women can engage in lots of kissing, touching and caressing.

11. Rear extension blend

Backreach Blend is a hybrid between a thigh job and a butt job. In this position, the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him with her head near his feet and his penis (which passes between her thighs) tilted toward her butt through the pressure of one of their hands.

This position is a dream for men who love their partner’s thighs and feet.

12. Side-gaze craze

In Sideview Sizzle, the woman lies on her side and the man (on his knees) slides his penis between her butt cheeks, at an angle to the direction of her lower back. There are ample opportunities for mutual contact with this person.

13. Southbound Slide

In “Southbound Slide” the opposite of “Side Hiss” happens. The woman lies on her side and the man kneels down and slides his penis between her butt cheeks. But this time his cock was pointed at her feet.

14. Harmony at the top

In Harmony at the High Level, the woman sits in a chair with her back to her partner, and the man stands behind her.

15. Kneel down and trade

In a “kneeling deal,” both the man and woman kneel down, facing the same direction. Since all four hands are available, it can be easily used for breast, clitoral or testicular stimulation.

16. Standing ovation

During the standing ovation, men and women stand on the floor, facing the same direction. This pose can feel more intimate or sexual, depending on how you do it.

17. Comfortable straddle ride

In Comfortable Straddle, the man sits upright with his legs spread apart and the woman straddles him, facing him.

For light friction, they don’t need their hands to apply pressure. For moderate friction, use one or two hands. For maximum friction, a man can extend his arms, “bear hug” her butt cheeks, and squeeze his penis between his forearms and her pressed butt cheeks.

18. Relax upside down

In “Inverted Relaxation,” the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him, with her head toward his feet and her feet toward his head.

One of the benefits of this position is that her body weight alone creates all the friction they need. It’s like a horizontal lap dance, with gravity doing half the work.

To further increase friction, a man can squeeze her butt cheeks together with his hands from both sides. Want it to be more of a mutual masturbation show? Women can also manually stimulate themselves simultaneously, which men can easily see from their vantage point.

Anal jobs for all!

Well, that’s it! These are 18 anal positions for you and your partner to try.

I’m sure you’ve learned something from this guide. I hope you get to try out your favorite anal positions in the coming days and weeks.

If you are looking for more next-level sex secrets, I highly recommend checking out the other resources below.

Committed to your success,

Jordan

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About Jordan Gray

Jordan Gray has been a sex and relationship coach for over 15 years, working with over 200 million people around the world. His work has been published in Vogue, GQ, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and countless other publications around the world. When he’s not coaching one-on-one clients or writing new articles, he can most likely be found reading, chopping firewood, or spending time with his wife on a small island off the west coast of Canada.