15 Ways to Feel Luxury Fun (on any budget!) – Girls

Nowadays, pleasure seems short. Since many of us either suffer directly or stick to the pain of others (or devastating remarks that have both), it would make perfect sense if you find it difficult to get pleasure and joy lately.

But – as Adrienne Maree Brown says in her wonderful book Pleasant Actionism – Pleasure is not only a peaceful balance of all stressors in the world, but a guiding force that helps remind us of our struggle for.

Even “pleasant professionals”, such as sex toy reviewers (hi, me!) and escort service providers, can sometimes be difficult to reserve enough time for enjoyment, let alone enough money – So, what I have collected is that ordinary people work harder. For your closer look, here is a list of some key categories, and I think the fun is important, and each category has 3 viable suggestions on different prices. I hope it inspires you to think about how to bring more fun to your life today!

Happy food/drinks

$(Free-$20): Raid your refrigerator/cabinet/wine cabinet and try mixing yourself with original cocktail/alcohol-free cocktails. Ideally it would be delicious, but hey, sometimes the failed experiment is the most interesting.

$$($20-100): Find recipes online that you have never tried and want to try, buy all the ingredients and play some great music in the kitchen. (If you hate cooking, maybe you could bribe your loved ones to make it for you with wine/pie/praise and enjoy this meal together?)

$$$($100+): Do some research to find a restaurant in your area that offers a tasting menu (or a bar that offers a “flight”) that appeals to you and suits your budget and then go and enjoy a great taste. If you want, invite a partner or friend and dress up!

Sound/Music Fun

$: Find some new music online (or at your local library if you want to go old school!), close your eyes and listen to it, focus on it, meditate, and let it take you where to go.

$$: Find local music venues and see what happens – then go with some young people in some rock show tickets for your own orchestral performance, or watch some jazz at the club, or stick out your steel-toed boots. Pay attention to how music affects your body.

$$$: Give yourself an instrument, perhaps one you have never played or owned before, and spend some time teaching yourself how to play (there are a lot of tutorials in YouTube and elsewhere) and/or squeeze out. (If you don’t know where to start, I might suggest a Hawaiian quadruple? You can get a decent beginner for under $50, which sounds like less than $200.)

Spiritual/intellectual happiness

$: Leave plenty of time to leisurely read the books you’ve always wanted to go to, maybe have a cup of coffee/tea/hot chocolate while reading. (If you’re making a name for yourself from a good reading material, visit Google to find the little free library you’re closest to, and then go swap a book or two in exchange for something new.)

$$: Go and see the movies you have always wanted to watch, whether it is yourself or your loved ones. Optionally, bring a small notebook and pen and take notes, such as an incredible movie. Or just sit down and push popcorn into your face and let the artwork wash you.

$$$: Buy yourself some tickets to live theaters – maybe a big, gorgeous musical, maybe a fierce drama, maybe an experimental one-man show by your ridiculous local clowns (Collective), who knows. If you are brave enough, make friends with people sitting at the intermission and discuss the topic and information about your work, assuming there is anything.

Sexual and physical pleasure

$: Place your hands on a bottle of coconut oil, almond oil or similar bottles – whether you pick it up from a kitchen cabinet or from a local grocery store – and use it to massage your partner or yourself. Slowly, pay attention to every touch to make your massage meditate. ahmy body just thinks it will feel calm.

$$: Let you take yoga classes, spin classes, Zumba classes, or other ways that sound like a fun way to move your body. If nothing like this sounds interesting to you (#relatable), maybe it’s better to spend money to visit your local spa for pedicure, facial, sensory deprivation tank floats or something like that.

$$$: Feeling real Spelled happily? Contact your local luxury escort agency to hire a professional for the evening (or longer large expenses!). Depending on the specific product of the provider you hire, your meetings can be anything from sensual sadomasochism scenes to erotic massages to memorable sexual experiences. After all, it is usually best to hire a professional if you want to do the right thing…

Play/Entertainment

$: Choose creative activities you have never/seldom done before, or just not good at (music making, painting, video editing, graphic design?) and spend hours trying to do something, teaching yourself the necessary skills through research and experimentation. Play, try something, and remember that the process is the point!

$$: Buy yourself a new video game and leave some relaxing time to play it. (Even if you are not usually a video game person/do not own a console, there are many games available for phones and computers today!)

$$$: Sign up for improvisation classes, art classes, dance classes or some other fun creative stuff that will socialize and “play” regularly. Even for adults, gaming is good for our brains (maybe especially As adults), we shouldn’t just be because we’ve grown up!

What is your Favorite way to get pleasure these days?

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