Carry Your Sexual Sobriety Plan With You
All daily inspirations can be found in the book Sex and Porn Addiction Healing and Recovery. Used here with permission of the author.
The path of recovery has many twists. It is wise to carry a map.
Sexual sobriety plans are created for three primary reasons:
- To help us understand the nature of our addiction and to define our personal version of sexually. addictive behaviors (inner circle/boundary)
- To help us identify ‘slippery’ areas to watch out for (middle circle/boundary).
- To provide us with guidance when we are triggered and unsure about what to do next (outer circle/boundary).
Knowing this, many of us choose to carry printed or digitized versions of our sexual sobriety plan at all times. That way, when we are triggered, we can look at our inner circle/boundary to see which behaviors are prohibited, our middle circle/boundary to see where we are being slippery, and our outer circle/boundary for a handy list of healthy alternative behaviors.
Task for Today
Create a portable version of your sexual sobriety plan and carry it with you. Refer to it at least three times.

Anal Beads
Anal Vibrators
Butt Plugs
Prostate Massagers
Alien Dildos
Realistic Dildos
Kegel Exercisers & Balls
Classic Vibrating Eggs
Remote Vibrating Eggs
Vibrating Bullets
Bullet Vibrators
Classic Vibrators
Clitoral Vibrators
G-Spot Vibrators
Massage Wand Vibrators
Rabbit Vibrators
Remote Vibrators
Pocket Stroker & Pussy Masturbators
Vibrating Masturbators
Cock Rings
Penis Pumps
Wearable Vibrators
Blindfolds, Masks & Gags
Bondage Kits
Bondage Wear & Fetish Clothing
Restraints & Handcuffs
Sex Swings
Ticklers, Paddles & Whips

